Lies of the Left #2

We are currently in the midst of the “caged immigrant children” crisis.  You know, the one Obama did for 8 years, but now because it’s a Republican it’s HORRIBLE. Sheesh.

So the lie we are doing today is “It’s for the Children!” After one of the school shootings, I remember a dem saying something like “if we can save just one child”.  These people don’t care about the children. They are just tools to confiscate our right to self defense, or to attack Trump.

So think about this.  The Democrats are saying “It’s a crime against humanity, just like the Nazis did, to separate children from their parents!”.  Please. They are only too happy to separate children from their parents if they get to do it via an abortion.

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Lies of the Left #1

I’ve decided to expose some of the common lies of the left. Since everything the verbose left says is a lie it’s going to be hard to choose a first topic.  But since this is father’s day I’ll go with the lie: “Single mother homes are just as good as those who have a father”. or  stated another way, “Children don’t need fathers”

 

This lie has been around quite a long time.  Interest in it perhaps peaked when someone running for president  or VP criticized the Murphy Brown example of choosing to bring up a child alone.  They twisted the words to say that what he really said was single mothers were bad or something.  Single mothers are heroic in my opinion, and that’s because raising a child is a job for two.  Many of you will say “two Moms are just as good.” We’ll know better in the future just how true that is.  But I have two things to say.

 

Number 1.  Ample evidence is out there that children of even the poorest families that have a Mom and Dad do better then even the most affluent single parent families.  Look it up.  Plenty of evidence of that.

 

Number 2.  Fathers have different role in raising children.  The mother  mothers them.  She protects, feeds, and comforts and helps children develop empathy.  Dad’s job is to prepare the children for the world. To challenge them. To lay down rules. It’s the yin and yang of the two parents that really helps the child fully develop. When my son was joining the Navy, my wife was against this because it’s a hard job, and she worried about him doing well.  I said, he had a normal childhood with plenty of yelling, he will do fine in the Navy, and he did.

I was going to list the problems associated with fatherlessness. But my source listed so many, I’ll just let you look at the Psychology Today article yourself.

So, for the sake of your children, work out your problems and stay married, or failing that, work to ensure your children are integrated into their father’s life. Kids need their fathers.

The new Moloch

In ancient times the god Moloch demanded human, and especially child sacrifice.  When I first learned of this god I thought that these would be children taken from some other tribe, or taken by force from unwilling parents. Now I’m questioning the unwilling part.  I think parents chose to sacrifice their own children because they believed in the god. You might think people wouldn’t willingly sacrifice their own children to some false god, until you look at the transgender religion. Yes that’s right Moloch is now called “gender dysphoria” and people are lining up to sacrifice their own children to him.

Here are some things to think about.

https://pjmedia.com/parenting/2016/05/12/cruelity-accept-current-transgender-advocacy/

 

http://yiannopoulos.net/2014/08/15/transgenderism-is-a-psychiatric-disorder-its-sufferers-need-therapy-not-surgery/

Maybe the parents who decide to transgender their own child feel guilty about driving a gas powered car, or don’t eat vegan or whatever. But they can at least throw their children to Moloch.The original Moloch was a wood fired bronze statue that gave a painful but relatively quick death. This new Moloch provides decades of suffering. And can we treat the mental disorder? no that’s agains the rules. All you can ever do is accept the delusion of the trangender, and throw them to Moloch.

 

 

 

The transgender delusion continued

I wrote a Post about the Department of Education forcing all schools to accept the transgender delusion. I got some angry comments from 2 transgender people, upset that I called them delusional. They really believe they are transgender so for them it doesn’t seem like a delusion.

 

But while arguing I was forced to learn a number of things. The trans community believes that gender is separate from sex. This therefore makes it possible for them to believe there are more than 2 genders. No one elaborated on what the extra ones were.

 

It also became clear that the transgender people are  unhappy. Well, very unhappy. The one who thought he was a girl didn’t want to tell everyone about his real gender, while the one who thinks she’s a man was often irritated by people who thought she was a girl.

 

There was mutual agreement that these unhappy people should be able to get help in dealing with all this. But now here’s the weird part, though there are still some groups doing this, it is thought to be harmful to simply help these people be comfortable with their actual gender. This is called reparative or “conversion” therapy. Conversion therapy earned a bad rap with the L/G/B movement because; they don’t want to change, and I think this treatment was done poorly and/or for the wrong reasons. So, when the T joined the LGB movement this option was automatically ruled out. In fact, it’s been made illegal in some states to help people become comfortable with their own gender. This trend will likely continue until it will be completely illegal for a counselor to suggest to little Johnny that he is not really a girl.

 

Where does this leave us? It leaves us kind of where we are. These people can’t accept that they are what they are. And because they are unhappy they want to become happy, and the only option left is to attempt change gender. We aren’t even going to try to get them comfortable with the truth.

 

The left of course buys into this delusion. (Delusion is what they are good at.) This means any child having gender doubts is taken by his “loving” leftist parents to a counselor who can only accept his delusion as fact. These “loving” parents then attempt to change the sex of their children,thereby sterilizing them, and forcing them into a life of unhappiness.

 

But the left has never really cared for their own children, have they?

My thoughts on Marriage

Some of you may be thinking about marriage in your future, (and some of you may be thinking about divorce), so I thought I’d take a few minutes and share my thoughts on this subject. Our American culture is so full of misunderstanding and misconception about what marriage means, that I thought I’d share another view.

 

Marriage in today’s legal world is a very dangerous place for a man. If a man with children gets divorced he divides his bank account in half. He probably loses his house. He will also be making payments for child support and alimony. He may very well lose his children if his ex works to turn them against him. He may also lose his reputation by the ex accusing him of various crimes such as child molestation, domestic violence or just about anything. A relative of mine was falsely accused of molestation, and it was a nightmare for him. So, it can be a real horror show if divorce happens, and divorce happens a lot.

 

So, I found myself debating myself. Should I be pushing my sons toward marriage which in today’s world may ultimately be very detrimental to their well being? I think the answer is yes, but with a caveat that one had better make sure from the onset that they make that marriage work.

 

I think some of the benefits of marriage; companionship, friendship, and intimacy are well known and are portrayed in just about every movie and song out there. But one big plus of marriage is often portrayed as a negative, and that is the children that often come out of it. I wanted children, but greatly underestimated both the both the effect, and the reward. Raising successful and happy children has provided me personally a huge, huge amount of personal satisfaction. I’m not saying there weren’t trying, terrifying, and tedious moments along the way but the satisfaction is huge and there were many terrific moments during the whole process. Some couples choose to not have children. My spouse says, yes you shouldn’t have children if you don’t want them. But I think those people are ultimately missing out on one of life’s great joys.

 

But recognize that once a child shows up, the marriage fundamentally changes. It becomes much more important because the changes aren’t just affecting the people who decided to form a team, but also the people that didn’t get a vote. And divorce really doesn’t help the children. In fact, studies show that children from the lowest socioeconomic group of intact families do better than children from the highest socioeconomic group of single families. So it is extremely important that you work at your marriage for the long haul because once you have children they need your marriage to work.

 

There is a lot of misinformation, a lot of it from Hollywood and the liberal left about marriage. It focuses on how marriage is a romantic time where you have to find your “soul mate” and then “live happily ever after”. Then they provide you with just about the worst tool ever by telling you “love means never having to say you’re sorry”. FemiNazis say marriage is the oppression of women, which is about as foolish as the other things they say. They say, if you didn’t find the right one the first time, just get a divorce and move on. And like everything coming from the liberal left, this is all bullshit. Marriages were arranged or at least approved of for couples for most of recorded history. Marriages are still arranged in many cultures. And if the vast majority of these arranged marriages can survive, and they do, marital durability must be due to something more than finding your soul mate.

 

 

The real tools for marital durability involve trying to be unselfish. You have to recognize the infatuation phase will wear off and then you are just two people trying to work things out and to form a good working team. Recognize now this other person isn’t your soul mate, but someone you like and want to work with. Probably the most important thing is to not let negative things build up. When things go wrong, you have to work through your problems (with a lot of talking) to a compromise of some sort. The church and God are an ally in this as they reiterate the message of self-sacrifice and love. Not romantic love, but the love they talk about in church that means forgiving, work and sacrifice.

 

So, I am coming down in favor of marriage. But it’s a big commitment that I wanted to make sure you went into with your eyes open to the risks and the rewards. Use all the tools, church, family, communication, the church’s pre marriage course, and your own personal commitment to make the marriage work. And whatever you do, don’t think divorce is the easy way out.

 

Women Are NOT The Enemy

There are a lot of men who think men should either avoid women or to avoid marriage. I read the comments on manosphere blogs, and can see a huge amount of bitterness and fear expressed by the writers. There’s talk of losing everything through frivorce. Lots of people advise walking away from women altogether, while others say have all the temporary girlfriends you want, but never get close and form a partnership with one.

 

There’s no doubt why people have come to this conclusion. I have an article here describing the completely twisted world view of a fully indoctrinated femi-nazi. And there is no doubt about the number of completely spoiled women, and men, running around out there in the US and other western countries. I think perhaps it’s worse for women with the “you can be anything, you are special, and you are better than everyone else” chant running through the media and pop culture. I am especially offended by the ridiculous female action heroes portrayed in film.

 

Some of you may say there are no spoiled men out there, but I point to Elliot Rodger as the poster child for warped, immature, and spoiled men.

 

People have also pointed out on various manosphere sites that women crave with all their hearts and souls to be in a relationship. I believe this to be absolutely true, though feminism is busily teaching a contradictory message. That message though, contradicts women’s nature and this is demonstrated by all the femi-nazis rejecting men in the daytime while looking for a husband every evening.

 

I also believe women want leadership. (that popping sound you hear is feminist heads exploding) This is why they are more attracted to men who have a plan. My daughter recently dumped a guy who was constantly manipulating her to ask him out. This is why “alphas” do well in the dating market. But there is another component of this that’s perhaps not well understood. Women also want to have influence over whatever the plan is. My daughter also recently dumped a guy who didn’t listen to her at all. No listening, no influence. The women want the men to be planning the future while they influence whatever decision is made. I have found that this is a good thing. My wife and I can point to decisions we spent a lot of time going back and forth over and those decisions were better than any decision either of us would have made on our own.

 

In summary, women want an equal partnership. They want men’s affection, leadership, and companionship. In return, they will be the best mothers they can be, as they will totally devote themselves to their children. If you are a man and you want children, never, ever consider having them without providing a mother as well. The father provides leadership and guidance to the children. The mother gives them everything else. Couples in a good partnership will stay married, produce great children, and will ultimately really enjoy that relationship. There will be unpleasant moments along the way, and marriage, as is pointed out quite frequently is full of risk, but with high risk comes great reward.